An article I wrote for MSN about commitmentphobia in women has been published here. (NB there seems to be a problem with the page loading in anything but IE).  Hopefully you’ll find it a useful read if you’re a) a commitmentphobic woman or b) in a relationship with a commitmentphobic woman.  Or: c) in a relationship with a woman, but have no idea whether she’s a commitmentphobe or not. They hide it rather well, you know ;-).